We all need to feel a sense of love.
Some crave attention from spouses
Others crave affection from parents
Some prefer the company of their cat or dog
Some need verbal reassurance of their beauty
Others need to be held through the night
Some only a gentle smile or twinkle of the eye
No matter what the form is, love is something everyone needs.
But why, why do we need it?
What makes ‘love’ so damn important?
Does it make us feel whole, feel wanted, feel something… anything?
Does it make us forget the hate of the world, the tears we have shed, the ones we have lost?
Love has the potential for greatness but it is not this all-healing power that brings people back to life after tragedy has struck. In fact, it is often what put us there in the first place.
Love is painful
Love is scary
Love is loss
So why is this painful, scary, not so perfect thing called ‘love’ so damn important?
Why do we keep coming back to this feeling after it has hurt us so many times?
The rewards are worth the risks
The ups are worth the downs
The pain is worth the pleasure
Love is beautiful because it is complicated.
There are so many dimensions of love: parent-child, siblings, distant relation you love even though you never see them, spouse for 50 years, fiancé of five minutes, the first sight of a guy across the bar, the laughter, the kisses, the tears.
Love is forgiveness
Love is rebirth
Love is beauty
Nothing in the world is purely good or bad, and love is no exception.
Love can feel crushing and it can also lift one up
It can cause your world to be empty or fill it with endless joy
We all need to feel a sense of love. Not always in the same way in every instant, but we do.
It’s what makes us human.
What lifts us up when we are down
But keeps us in our place when we get too proud
Some people have lots of love to give
Some people need a little more love than others
Some people just don’t know what to do with this… thing
Love is who we are, you can push it away, you can deny that you need it, you can choose to use it or fight it, but in the end, love is all we have.
We may be back and forth on the good and bad of love but we cannot deny its importance.
If it wasn’t even the slightest bit important to you, you wouldn’t have read this blog.